Sherry Turkle’s “Alone Together: Why We Expect More From Technology and Less From Each Other” (2010) is a powerful book that investigates the relationship between human beings — both as individuals and as a collective — with the contemporary technologies that have come to dominate our global culture.
While Turkle offers us something of a ‘history of the evolution of social technologies’ (from social machines to social networks and beyond) over the past thirty-some years, which is fascinating in itself, what makes “Alone Together” so compelling is how she, educated in the Freudian psychoanalytic school of thought, addresses the impact that such technologies are already having on individuals and their relationships with one another, and what the implications could be for the future.
The first half of the book focuses on the evolution of sociable and helper robots, from MIT’s human-esque ELIZA, Kizmet, Cog, Mertz and Domo, all programmed to respond to, ‘learn’ from, communicate with, and, to a certain extent, look like real humans, to their robotic pet ‘dog’ AIBO and Japan’s Paro (which was recently released in the US after huge acceptance overseas) Hasbro’s My Little Baby, Japanese sex robots that can be designed to look like anyone the purchaser choses, NurseBots, and so forth.
Turkle’s thirty-plus years of researching such technologies and the people that use them, along with her access to ‘behind-closed-doors’ content via her position at MIT, gives us a panoptic view of how these sociable robots are being designed, developed and tested, how both the designers and the users react and respond and relate to these robots, and what the future likely has in store for such technology on the societal, private and business level.
For Turkle, while she agrees (to a certain extent) that these new technologies may help fill a gap in such areas as caring for or serving as companions for the elderly, the lonely and for children, what is most important in the advancement and integration of these technologies into our everyday lives is that we must never forget what it means to be human. More specifically, while these machines may appeal to our human side and thus appear to us being “alive enough” to satisfy a variety of our practical, emotional and social needs, while they may appear to us as distinct ‘Others’ through the mimicking of human social behavior, practices and even in their appearance (humanoid bodies, ’emotional’ eyes, capacity for facial expressions, etcetera), and while we may even feel as though they are ‘better’ than any real human could ever be — never disrespecting or deceiving, always attentive and ‘on call’, always willing (programmed) to ‘hear’ us out — that they are, in the end, only machines, and will thus never be able to replace the true ‘Other’.
This first half of the book calls to mind John Searle’s famous “Chinese Room Argument” in where he argues that, no matter how intelligently a program (in this case, sociable robots) is made to behave, no matter how ‘deeply’ a program is made to compute, interpret and respond to a human in communication, even if that program is designed so expertly that it could fool even an intelligent speaker into thinking that it is in fact ‘understanding’ him or her, that the fact remains that the program does NOT understand, but that it merely is simulating understanding. Since it does not actually understand, it can not be said to be ‘of thinking mind,’ and thus it will always be a completely alien Other, non-human and therefore foreign. To summarize, Searle famously writes that “syntax is not semantics” — that to simulate a mind is not the same as to have a mind, to simulate understanding is not the same as to truly understand.
Turkle’s careful and considerate balance of highlighting the potential benefits of such technologies while warning us of their silent pitfalls is what truly holds this book together, and is what could even be said to be her overall message. This theme is taken to a new and, at least for me, a more familiar and relatable level in the second half of the book.
While her investigation into how we relate to sociable robots was extremely interesting, I found that her examination of how we relate to ourselves and each other in the age of social media, CMC and the various digital devices that have become ubiquitous in our day-to-day lives, struck at the very heart of my interests and own concerns. It seems that Turkle feels that this one of the major challenges of our time with regard to ‘advancement of the individual’, and if so, I would agree.
While the first half of the book, although certainly meant to serve as a ‘warning’ of what could become of us if we rely too much on such technologies, still seemed to have an essential optimism to it, discussing in some depth the positive role the social and helper robots could have for many different areas of life, the second half of the book was markedly more dark and pessimistic.
Focusing primarily on the age group that grew up learning with and dependent on these emergent technologies, Turkle paints a picture of a generation that is seemingly devoid of substance, lost in a fog of text messaging, chat rooms, IMing, Facebook and MySpace profiles, and ‘Second’ lives lived on the screen. She tells numerous stories of young men and women, boys and girls, who dread face-to-face encounters, who know no solitude or genuine direct experiences, who have 1000 Facebook friends but no intimately close friends off the screen, who prefer to live as an Avatar in a sociable game than as a person in reality, and so on.
This darker, almost ominous theme might be best summarized by Turkle’s explanation of how individuals respond to Second Life (SL): “The joy of SL is the heightened experience. Time and relationships speed up. Emotions ramp up. The time from meeting to falling in love to marrying to passionate break-ups… can all happen in a very short order… [and that] it is easy to get people to talk on SL about the ‘boredom of the everyday’,” and that “life on the screen moves from being better than nothing, simply to better” (217-218).
The final sections of the book, with chapter titles like “Anxiety”, “Nostalgia of the Young”, “Reduction and Betrayal”, “True Confessions” and so forth, and quotations from teens about their sense of isolation and loneliness, their unsatisfied need for space and solitude, their sense of loss without ever ‘having had’, certainly help paint the picture of Turkle’s overall message (or warning rather) that if we continue on our current path with regard to our relationship to technology, and thus our relationships with ourselves and genuine Others, that we are destined for a dark and hollow future.
But, while we may be “consumed by that which we are nourished by,” to borrow from Shakespeare (a repeating quotation Turkle uses throughout the book), the author doesn’t leave us on a totally sour note, and instead uses her final chapter as a ‘call to action’: “Yet, no matter how difficult, it is time to look again toward the virtues of solitude, deliberateness, and living fully in the moment…” [and that] “when it is we who decide how to keep technology busy, we shall have better” (298).
I could see a whole body of work that follows as a result of Turkle’s call — both in support of and against — and I hope that she will continue to lead the way in this line of thinking for years to come. I would highly recommend this book to anyone, from professional scholars to passionate intellectuals, social philosophers to psychologists, teachers, mothers, fathers, sons, daughters, gamers, geeks, texters, bloggers, IMers, Facebookers, and everyone in between.
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